Discover Vintage America - JUNE 2019
May brings memories and Mother's Day
Q: Do you have any ideas on how to use inexpensive vintage items to decorate tables and the venue for a wedding reception? I am not really interested in 1001 ways to use glass canning jars. Thank you for any help you can give me. I love your column and look forward to it every month.
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I just love practical people. A wedding is a day when you make a promise to one you want to spend your life with. Day and life are the key words. Of course you want a beautiful, memorable wedding day but there is no reason to spend $40,000 + on it. Heck, that is a decent down payment on a house.
When my oldest daughter got married several years ago, we spent a great deal of time at the Dollar Stores, Big Lots, and thrift stores. She created a "look book" with ideas that she like then we figured out how to get the same look for less.
If you have a friend with a tax id number you can purchase your flowers at wholesale prices and make all of the flowers for your big day at ¼ of the cost. YouTube is filled with videos on how to make a bouquet. I bought some fake flowers to practice with and I am thankful that I did.
We were only decorating the reception venue as they had an outdoor wedding. We had rose petals as the "aisle" and friends and family formed a circle around the couple as they said their vows.
There are so many things that you can do to decorate the tables. If you use real flowers for the tables keep the arrangement low so that people can comfortably talk and see over them. Get an assortment of flowers, and glass "vases" of varying heights, bundle the the flowers in to little bouquets and place them in odd number groups on the table. You don't have to over do it. Thrift stores and dollar stores are a treasure trove for short vases.
I love candlelight, especially taper holders of different heights or candelabras with a lot of arms. Brass candle sticks are easy to find at thrift shops and metallic spray paint works wonders on changing the color to match or compliment your wedding colors.
If using lighted candles on a table space for safety sake glue the holders to a narrow piece of painted plywood or other material. Glue the candles into the holders as well. You can find LED tealight candles.
One of my favorite ideas isn't limited to wedding reception decor and is easy to create. Gather crocheted doilies of all shapes and sizes, if you don't have a drawer full like I do, craft stores sell packages of new ones. You also need to purchase hanging light fixtures, which is a cord, bulb holder and clips to hold the light bulb in place.
- Blow up balloons to your desired diameter, then using a decoupage glue adhere the doilies to the outside of the balloons. Put a minimum of three coats of the glue on the doilies, making sure that the final coat is dry. Pop the balloon, cut a hole in the top large enough for your light bulb assembly to hold snugly in place, remove the balloon and use low wattage bulbs to avoid a fire.
- Viola! These could be used to light your outdoor seating area. Using the same process, you can make spheres of any size and place an LED tealight candle inside or make your small sphere out of colored tissue paper. Go back to that old school paper mache.
- If you visit thrift stores on a frequent basis you will be amazed at the items you can find to use in your wedding and reception. Silverplate trays with a lot of wear can be painted with metallic spray paint or color of your choice.
- Keep an eye out for baskets in all shapes in sizes; they are very inexpensive and can be easily painted.
- At the thrift store, purchase stemware of the same style and get rolls of tulle or jute and place it down the center of your table. Place the stem ware cup side down over the top of a flower and place another flower on the base of the stem ware. This is beautiful for the head table with some accent candles.
When my nephew got married he and his bride-to- be did not want a traditional guestbook so they asked me to come up with an idea for a quilt. I had each guest sign and decorate a muslin square using fabric paint pens. When it was finished, I have to admit, it was pretty fabulous.
All of my best wishes to you.
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Michelle Staley is a Lenexa, KS-based dealer and researcher with 35 years of experience in the antique trade. Send questions with photos to Michelle to firstname.lastname@example.org. Please keep queries to one question; questions without photos of the item may not be answered. Michelle is also available for consulting and extensive research work beyond this column. If you would like an appraisal on an antique or collectible please go to www.michelleknowsantiques.com for a one-on-one appraisal.